Friday, May 04, 2012

Lo ...

She was Lo, plain Lo, in the morning, standing four feet ten in one sock. She was Lola in slacks. She was Dolly at school. She was Delores on the dotted line. But in my arms she was always Lolita. Light of my life, fire of my loins. My sin, my soul. Lo-lee-ta.

"My car is limping, Delores Haze,
And the last long lap is the hardest,
And I shall be dumped where the weed decays,
And the rest is rust and stardust."


Paul said...

Hey Buddy. Just dropping this little message in here as it's the first post available on your blog. It was good to get your call last night. Anyway, I was thinking over our conversation and felt compelled to drop by and say this.....

When god created a mould for man he made Adam.

When god created a mould for the old fashioned old school butch, he used you. You are the epitome of a dying breed - butch and what it means to be butch, with a respect for women I have never seen before. Like you I've been around for a while. I'm 65 so I'm up on you a fair ways and I've been around all walks of life - and YOU keep it alive buddy. There's a lot of butches and bois running around calling themselves old school and old fashioned and I've seen plenty of it through the decades in and out of the scene, but honestly they don't come anywhere close to you and your character.

Authenticity is my word for you.

You're a straight shooter and don't go changing for anyone.

Peace friend


a person who is forthright and upstanding in behavior.


upright; honorable; straightforward.
of a fine, vigorous type.
erect; erect and tall.

World English Dictionary
upstanding (ʌpˈstændɪŋ)


1. of good character
2. upright and vigorous in build

Related Words for: upstanding =
noble, solid, worthy.

Main Entry: upstanding

Definition: honorable

Synonyms: ethical, good, honest, incorruptible, moral, principled, straightforward, true, trustworthy, upright

going straight to the point; frank; direct; outspoken: It's sometimes difficult to be forthright and not give offense.

Archaic. a straight course or path.

And that is only a small part of you.

Authenticity my friend!

Paul said...


the quality of being authentic; genuineness.

Related Words for: authenticity =
genuineness, legitimacy


Definition: genuineness
Synonyms: accuracy, correctness, credibility, dependability, factualness, legitimacy, purity, realness, reliability, trustworthiness, truthfulness, validity, veritableness

You're a true gentleman butch and you always showed me respect and dignity when I was in drag. You treated me like a lady when many saw me otherwise.

Hats off to you.